Last night it happened. I gave my talk at Bushtukah S.W.E.E.T night.
S.W.E.E.T night is a pretty big night in the Ottawa sporty women domain. The event sold out in less than one week – this was with zero promotion. Over 500 tickets – with no advertisements or super intense social media campaigning.
You know you’re onto something good when this happens. Right up until the event started last night there were ladies posting on the SWEET Facebook page looking for tickets.
This is fantastic. It also made me a bit nervous.
- I was giving a talk.
- I was giving it to over 500 women.
- This event has a long history of outstanding speakers.
- I function best behind a computer screen.
- I had never done this before. (Junior Toastmasters does not count.)
The last few weeks have really been all about March 31st and speaking at SWEET.
Thanks to my brother Gregory who put in so much time helping me refine my talk and giving me truly professional public speaking coaching, I was well-prepared.
Marc, my husband had to sit through many rehearsals of my speech and hear me stress about the night and even answer questions about which pants I should wear.
I could not have gotten up there last night without Gregory and Marc believing in me. As well, a huge thanks to my mother-in-law, Annette, for coming over and listening to a rehearsal. Her feedback really helped me feel more settled about the evening.
This green binder has been my security blanket for the last 4 weeks or so. Each version of the speech (at last count I revised my speech 6 times) was carefully hole-punched and placed in this binder.
And last night, this trusty green binder helped me stand up and speak to over 500 women about resetting.
To give you an idea of how big last night was, here are a few photos from the night. The place was packed and the energy was contagious.
The night was very special. I was super lucky to have some very good friends there last night to support me, help me calm my nerves, and to be ready to give me cues if I was speaking too fast.
It’s kind of hard to explain the energy of the evening.
Imagine over 500 women out on a Sunday night and add in amazing door prizes (including 2 bikes and I don’t know how many pairs of running shoes and high-end pieces of clothing), a fashion show, free food, shopping, and a sense of community.
Stir this up with a big spoon and add in a bunch of amazing clubs and groups who came out to encourage all these ladies to sign up for cycling, trail running, nordic walking, triathlon, roller derby, and any other activity you can think of.
This resulted in a festive, supportive, encouraging, empathetic, and contagious atmosphere.
I’m super honoured to have been able to be part of the night and to share my story.
A big thank you to all the ladies who contacted me and posted comments on the SWEET Facebook page. Your messages and feedback really have put a boost in my spirits and confidence.
I know there were a lot of people who weren’t able to get tickets or attend last night. There isn’t a video of my talk but I did put my speaking notes and slide images into a document.
It’s a long read but my hope is that at the by the end of it you will: find your reset button and have learned the power of a support system, focussing on controlling the controllables, and in believing in yourself.
A big thank you to Charlotte, Judy, Natasha, and the rest of the Bushtukah team who I met last night. You put on a great night. Thank you for letting me be part of it.
On another note, I’ve decided to take part in the #The100dayproject. My plan is to sketch 100 flowers – one per day. The #The100dayproject is about creativity but this can be anything – sketching, writing, singing, photography, communicating, movement – really whatever you want it to be.
I’ll be sharing my flower sketches on my Instagram account. If you sign up, tag me so I know and I’ll follow you.
The last time I posted, I wrote about turning a corner. And I have to say that I really feel like this has happened.
Last night would never have happened 3 months ago or this time last year.
I count myself as one of the lucky ones.